My precious child,

Love yourself.  A low self esteem is not from Me. Stop picking on yourself that you are not good looking enough or smart enough to be loved. The most important thing is hat you love yourself. It is ok to love yourself.  You are not sinning by loving and caring for yourself.   Selfishness is when you only think and love yourself.  I never said in My Word that you could not love and care for yourself. I said in My Word not to be selfish but this does not mean to hate your self.  It is just as much of a sin to hate your self as it is to hate others. The second commandment is to love your neighbor as yourself, How can you love your neighbor as your self if you hate your self?  Love your self so that you can love others.  Do not feel guilty if you do nice things for your self.  It is ok to do nice things for your self, as long as you do nice things for others.  It is wrong to not care for your self just like it is wrong to not care for others so love your self and love others. 

Love your neighbor as yourself Matthew 22:39

Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13:10

After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church for we are members of his body. Ephesians 5:29-30